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Richard du Parcq
4th September 2025
Dr Richard du Parcq, 1943–2025
George Bernard Shaw memorably wrote I’m sorry this letter is so long. I didn’t have time to write a short one. Richard du Parcq, du P to his friends, who died on 25 August at the age of 82, took this famous utterance to new heights or perhaps lengths. He was completely incapable of writing a short email, still less mastering an answerphone. Zoom presented a whole new set of challenges, while firewalls, malware and the like simply defied comprehension.
Richard first encountered email in 1994; thousands of electronic missives would follow, each imprinted with his own unique turn of phrase, always running to many paragraphs, often tangential to the topic in hand. Thankfully, I rarely deleted them; they form a rich tapestry of his life, not to mention an invaluable aide memoire to writing this obituary.
About a month before he died, Richard wrote to the secretary at Cygnet informing him that he would be unable to attend the forthcoming ordinary general meeting. Typically, he went into further detail, describing himself as a well-disposed old fart, living just across the river, active 1968-1990s, who now has a mystery set of medical symptoms which has been puzzling Kingston Hospital once or twice a week in recent months. His symptoms would defy diagnosis until very late in the day, yet he had nothing but praise for the fifty-something professionals from every corner of the globe who had ministered to him, reflecting that just now, I find it hard to argue against immigration.
As it happened, the date of the OGM – 23 July – was a poignant one, coming just a week after Richard’s 56th anniversary as a member of Cygnet. His application form, dated 16 July 1969, informed the membership secretary that his full name was Richard Poole du Parcq, living in a basement on Kennington Road SE11, while gainfully employed in the Management Services Department of the Metropolitan Police, where he would remain for the whole of his working life. He listed his previous rowing club as Exeter College, Oxford.
Richard was born in 1943 in Godalming, Surrey, the eldest child of John and Ann du Parcq, both chemists. Growing up in an academic household, he seems to have been a studious child who steered well clear of most sport, especially rugby while at Cheltenham College. In 1961, he went up to Oxford, where he would spend the next seven years studying his mother’s subject (chemistry) at his father’s college (Exeter), emerging with a PhD in 1968. Yet his formidable intellect betrayed an enduring love for English and History.
Life at Oxford had many compensations. It was here that he developed his passion for rowing, while making lifelong friends of Phil Beckett and Neil Jackson (also Cygnet members), among others, as well as starring in a notorious episode of University Challenge with Stanley Johnson, inviting a strong rebuke from quizmaster Bamber Gascoigne for unscholarly behaviour towards the opposing team.
Richard was never under any illusion that he would make the blue boat. In his own words: my rowing owed more to enthusiasm, and great love of the sport, than to physique or any innate ability. Nevertheless, 1962 found him rowing in the college’s second VIII; by 1963 he had graduated to the first VIII, stroked by Phil Beckett, rowing in open competition at Reading and Marlow. Longer acts of endurance followed in the Boston Marathon in 1964 and ’66. In those days, it was customary to preseason at Leander, where he recalled sharing a shower with Jack Beresford of 1936 Olympic gold medal fame. Their paths would cross again in the Tommy Steele movie ‘Half a Sixpence’, when Richard played a bankside extra at Henley and Beresford an umpire.
Richard joined Cygnet – the best rowing club in the world – a time when it was starting to draw away from its post office roots, attracting a new wave of graduates. Among them was Normal Cowling who recalled: he (Richard) was the spare man for the 1972 Thames Cup VIII, a difficult role that he carried out with good grace and humour. After Henley he came back into the eight and was a key man in picking up some consolation pots (to add to his coveted novice IVs win at Worcester earlier in the year). Further consolation followed with a star appearance in an advertising feature afloat for Double Diamond; said to work wonders, it was no match for Richard’s lethal homemade wines.
Older hands at Cygnet are fond of quipping that Cygnet is a marriage bureau masquerading as a rowing club. Richard rarely let his work interfere with life outside the office and he was unaware of a colleague, Diane Clark, who worked at Scotland Yard concurrently. Yet fate was already on the case: Diane rowed at Chiswick for the Civil Service Ladies Rowing Club and their paths would duly cross in the bar après rowing. They married in 1973 after a stag night that appeared to go on for days (when it was not fashionable), setting up home in Barnes and begetting five children (and six grandchildren) during 52 years of marriage.
None of the children shared their parents’ love of rowing, but they all have fond memories of terrorising the club on a Sunday morning while awaiting their parents’ return from their respective outings. Yet all appreciate the overarching role rowing played in their father’s life. Phoebe du Parcq opines: The rowing club encapsulated so much of what was important to dad – a community that welcomed everyone and built on a shared set of values.
What Richard may have lacked in physical attributes on the water, he more than made up for on land, serving as captain twice (1979, 1989–90), along with long stints as secretary, treasurer and committee member, interspersed with coaching, coxing and even gym instruction. His enduring legacy will be the Ten-Year Boat Buying Programme which he devised in 1979. This would transform the club’s fleet from what we jokingly used to refer to as firewood into one of the best stocked boat clubs on the Tideway, one of which was named after him. A Civil Service Merit Award would follow in the 2000s for long service to sport and recreation in the public sector.
He will be remembered, too, for his high-brow coxing commands such as four, I fear you are the architect of your own misfortunes, which often drew a blank from the hapless recipient, but a wry smile from the rest of the crew. A Tideway Scullers veteran VIII who he coxed a few times, regarded him as the most entertaining coxswain on the Tideway and he was much in demand for the annual Speaker’s Summer Regatta between Lambeth and Westminster Bridges. Wistfully recollecting the 1986 event, he noted: The racing was rubbish, but I did see ex-prime minister James Callaghan falling in and there was plenty of freebie drinking afterwards on parliament’s terrace.
Richard’s talents were not confined to Cygnet. He also spent 35 years ‘before the flag’ as a licensed umpire before I lost my rag with the National Competition Committee. In one sense, the role of umpire suited him perfectly – he knew the rule book inside out; however, the practical side sometimes proved more of a challenge – he once started an VIIIs race that overtook the previous race causing some consternation at the finish. Still, such occurrences were mere hiccups along the way and in 2022 British Rowing presented him with a Lifetime Achievement Award for his outstanding contribution to the sport. Receiving it, Richard mused this may represent respectability ... something I haven’t always craved.
Be that as it may, the award also recognised the 18 years (2005-22) he had devoted as Entries Secretary of the Fours Head. Entries for this event always far exceed the number of spaces available resulting in endless instances of ‘special pleading’ night and day as the closing date approaches. The du Parcq household fielded these resolutely, knowing that such pleas were futile. As fellow Fours Head committee member Helen Smalman-Smith remembers, Richard was always firm and never unfair, showing inexhaustible patience in gently enlightening the confused. Entries-related correspondence has been much duller since he retired and certainly includes less Latin.
Richard’s life was not defined solely by rowing. Family life absorbed much of his time, and he would often regale us with their antics. Phoebe recalls that driving holidays and camping were the mainstay of du Parcq summers, but because of his pathological fear of motorways they always went the scenic route. Yet Richard was game for most things: Phil Beckett related how he ran 24 road marathons, including one in New York and another where he visited every public lavatory in south London due to an untimely upset stomach. In 2013 he joined others in a valiant attempt to scale Kilimanjaro for charity. At a more mundane level, he was always on hand for club bungalow working parties: he may have displayed no obvious DIY skills, but his stream of anecdotes was priceless.
Richard never missed a funeral if he could help it, travelling the length and breadth of the country in his stripy club blazer to bid a last farewell to the great and good of Cygnet and BBLRC. At Ann Southey’s funeral last year, he set a new trend appearing in his carpet slippers, which had escaped Di’s attention before they set off. His own funeral promises to be a tightly choereographed affair, right down to the last hymn. It will take place at St Mary’s, Barnes, a church Richard regularly attended – unless the hymns weren’t up to scratch – and one where he fulfilled the role of treasurer on the Parochial Church Council for some years.
Finally, as club historian I have written countless obituaries over the last decade. Each and every one of those benefitted from Richard’s meticulous proof reading and pearls of wisdom. It is doubtful whether this one would pass muster; hopefully, readers will excuse stray Oxford commas here and there.
Paul Rawkins, 2 September 2025
You are warmly invited to join us in remembering and celebrating the life of Richard du Parcq on Friday 19th September 2025 at 3:00 PM at St Mary’s Church, Barnes. Following the service, a private committal will take place at the crematorium for family and close friends. All are welcome to gather for refreshments and remembrance from 4:00 PM at The Coach and Horses on Barnes High Street.
Please feel free to wear something that reflects your relationship with Richard, for example club blazer or college tie. No flowers, please. Donations, if desired, may be made to The Amyloidosis Research Fund at The Royal Free Charity in memory of Richard du Parcq. Your presence and support are greatly appreciated.
Roy Ellison
29th November 2024
Roy Ellison, 1933–2024
It is with sadness we record the death of Roy Ellison at the age of 91 on Saturday 23 November following a short illness.
Roy joined Cygnet in the early 1960s (his application form has long since gone astray) and counted Mike Arnold-Gilliat, Colin Dominy, Len Huggett, Peter Jeffs, Lawrence McVeigh and Peter Roche among his contemporaries.
The 1960s were a lean time for Cygnet and silverware was sparse. Nonetheless, Roy and his generation were no strangers to adversity, having been among the last to do National Service, and he and his contemporaries kept the club going through this lacklustre era when Cygnet found it hard to boat competitive crews.
Roy’s first love was football: a gifted amateur, he had honed his talents while serving in the RAF in the Far East. As an ex-national serviceman, he came to rowing relatively late: aged thirty something, he would have been classed as a veteran. However, his innate strength and agility stood him in good stead and he soon acclimatised to life on the water.
Lawrence McVeigh, a lifelong friend, recalls I think he joined Cygnet in 63 or 64 as I raced with him, Mick Clifford and Jimmy Dunlop. We won Novice Fours at Peterborough in 1963 or 64. Hamstrung by a lack of new members and poor equipment, it would be some time before Roy ascended through the ranks to ‘junior’ and ‘junior-senior’. Still, there was no shortage of in-house events to keep him occupied.
Business houses and public sector rowing were in their element in the 1960s. Scratch Vllls events, the forerunner of the Business Houses Head, were regular features of the rowing calendar, along with private matches against Oxford and Cambridge colleges and the Armed Forces. As an active committee member, Roy played his part in organising these in-house contests, not to mention addressing the ever present concern of fund raising. His legacy lives on as one of the team who successfully launched the then 200 Club in 1969.
Norman Cowling, one of the new intake of graduates in the late 1960s, recalls Roy as a great club member, down to earth and usually wise cracking. Roy was strong and someone you enjoyed rowing with - a vital sort of club man who would turn out in any crew in any seat, someone we looked up to and relied upon.
Patience was rewarded in the fullness of time. Thus, in 1969 he rowed in an Vlll (pictured with Roy at four) that won ‘juniors’ at Chiswick and Putney Town before competing in ‘junior senior’ class at Richmond, Kingston, Staines and Barnes & Mortlake. While silverware narrowly eluded them at the latter events, the message was clear: Cygnet was no longer in the doldrums.
In 1972, club fund raising received a shot in the arm when Cygnet was invited to do a waterborne publicity stunt for Ind Coope Brewery extolling the virtues of Double Diamond: I’m only here for the beer….it’s DD. As Roy Alder, the bow man in the eight which took part, recalls, Roy was one of the fortunate four who appeared on the advertising hoarding, rowing at three.
The poster lives on in the club’s annals and for many years a larger than life version adorned a wall in our sister club Rudergesellshaft Benrath, a relationship that was forged during Roy’s era. Indeed, Roy was one of the party that made the second club visit to Benrath in 1972, in the wake of the inaugural visit in 1965. These were pioneering times.
Stardom had its place, but for Roy the best was yet to come. In 1973, together with Messrs Huggett, Jeffs and Roche, he won a veteran IVs event at Vesta International Veterans Regatta beating Barclays Bank and Frankfurt, Germany. It was a fitting finale to his competitive rowing career and an especially gratifying win for him and Jeffs, a fellow footballer turned rower.
In later years, Roy continued to make appearances at Old Blades on Henley Friday, as well as the ‘old hands’ winter gatherings at Leander Club and the Civil Service Club. Always cheerful, he never missed an opportunity to liven up the proceedings with the odd wise crack.
Roy is survived by Julia, his spouse of more than half a century, son James, daughter Sarah and a multitude of grandchildren. His funeral will take place at 16.30 on 6 December at Loughborough Crematorium.
With thanks to Lawrence McVeigh, Norman Cowling, Roy Alder and Richard du Parcq
Paul Rawkins, 28 November 2024
Len Hoskins
31st August 2024
Len Hoskins 1931 – 2024
It is with sadness that we report the death of Len Hoskins on the 28th July.
Born on 18th November 1931, Len was a post office engineer when he joined Cygnet RC on 13th September 1953, the same day as Peter Roche. Both Len and Peter had previous rowing experience and they were part of a significant influx of new members. Indeed, the club would enter four crews for that year’s HoRR.
In retrospect, 1953 would prove to be a turning point in Cygnet’s post-war fortunes on the water and Len Hoskins would be an important part of that story. Len rowed at seven in a Junior/Junior Senior Vlll that made its debut in 1954 winning at Richmond & Twickenham, Horseferry, Willesden and Kingston regattas. By all accounts, they were a very fast crew, putting in times comparable to some Thames Cup crews that had competed at Henley Regatta a few weeks previously, a fact that did not go unnoticed by the Daily Telegraph’s rowing correspondent. Hoskins was to enjoy one more Vllls win at Maidenhead in 1955. Thereafter, his name disappears from the regatta roll call. Nonetheless, he was one of a number of highly proficient oarsmen who put Cygnet back on the map in the post-war era.
An amusing tale is told of the crew’s win at Richmond and Twickenham in 1954. As winners, the club took possession of the Twickenham Cup, a magnificent piece of silverware housed in a wooden crate of some dimensions. During the course of the evening’s celebrations, John Bull, the coach of the successful crew, thought it prudent to remove the cup to a member’s house overnight for safekeeping. Another members’ ancient Riley was called into service and three of them staggered up several flights of stairs to a flat in Fulham with the crate, blissfully unaware that the pot was still doing the rounds at closing time in a pub at Richmond.It was at Cygnet that Len also met his wife-to-be, Eve Bailey, who was then a member of St Georges Ladies RC. They recalled very happy memories of their time rowing to their children, who remember accompanying their parents to Henley regatta. Eve passed away in 2021
Len's family have requested that, rather than flowers, donations should be made to Cygnet Rowing Club in his memory. Donations can be made online here or please contact the Treasurer for details of donations by cheque or Bank Transfer.
Len: top row, third from left
Len: front row, far right
